Is This Overwhelm Emerging Or Something Else?
I just got back from a lovely break with my grandkids in Hamilton, and it gave me time to reflect on why I do this work. Watching their curiosity and joy reminded me of something profound that happened in my classroom years ago.
Let me tell you about the moment that changed everything for me.
I'd just asked the reading group to get their book bags. The usual chaos broke out. Mostly boys racing to be first, chairs scraping, excited chatter filling the air.
But one boy froze.
The colour drained from his face. His shoulders dropped. His lip trembled ever so slightly.
Then, quietly, he slunk back to his seat, trying to become invisible, hoping no one would notice.
He didn't want to read. He wouldn't be coaxed into it. And when I looked into his eyes, I saw something that broke my heart.
I could feel it in my gut. This wasn't defiance. It was overwhelm. Pure, raw overwhelm. He didn't believe he could do it, and the thought of trying in front of his peers felt impossible.
That moment has never left me. It reshaped how I teach and how I support every learner who walks through my door.
He didn't need pressure. He didn't need to be pushed or convinced. He needed what we all need when we're struggling: safety, calm, and unwavering support.
Because here's what I've learned – learning looks different for every brain, and that's not just okay, it's beautiful.
This week on YouTube, I'm sharing a practical strategy that builds on this story, especially for those who constantly forget instructions no matter how clearly they're given. (Sound familiar?)
In just a few minutes, I explain:
Why verbal directions often don't stick, especially for ADHD, dyslexia and processing differences
A simple switch you can try right away that eases stress and increases independence
Real-life examples for home, school and work that actually work
If you're tired of repeating yourself, or if you're watching someone you care about struggle with that same overwhelm I saw in that little boy's eyes, this is for you.
Because every learner deserves to feel capable, supported, and understood.
Watch it here: https://youtu.be/lHxRuC2bZIo
You’re not going crazy.
They really did forget and here’s why.
Do you give clear instructions... and then nothing happens? Whether you're a parent, teacher, or colleague, it can be incredibly frustrating when someone forgets what you just said — especially when they’re bright and capable. In this video, I’ll show you a surprisingly simple strategy that helps support learners who struggle with working memory, dyslexia, ADHD, and executive functioning challenges. You’ll learn how to reduce stress, build independence, and stop repeating yourself, all with one small, powerful shift.
